Thursday 2 October 2014



Minimum wage rises by 3%!!!

People receiving the minimum wage could not be happier, I’m sure! 

When I was a waitress my mood would depend on how much I would get in tips. If it was less than £20 during a single shift I would always feel as though it was worthless coming to work. I live in zone 5 and worked in zone 1. My train fare would cost up to £15.80 including trains, buses or trams. If I got home late and the tram had stopped running and it was a Friday or Saturday- I would have to get a cab for £6. Otherwise I’d put myself at risk and have to walk for 20 mins to get home.

When travel expenses increase by 10% every year, food prices increase even more, not to mention bills and rent! How on earth one is supposed to survive on an extra 20p per hour?

Are you dreaming about having your own home? Maybe a dog too? How about a holiday to escape all the stress of trying to make your ends meet every single month? Wouldn’t you like to go to the gym and let all the frustrations out and come home all serene; make a healthy smoothie and have a healthy dinner? You would? Well, you can’t. Every one of these luxuries is out of your reach, even if you earn £10 per hour and live in Greater London. 
Stress that you experience daily will eventually make you depressed. If you are trying to avoid depression with every single brain cell knowing it will make it much worse by keeping positive, going for a jog or long walk, reading a book (you can’t really afford anything else)- fantastic! But for how long? I did all those things and a year later was diagnosed with severe IBS (pretty much sure it’s due to stress) and classic migraines with aura. Means I better follow FODMAP dietician’s advice or else live an uncomfortable life. Well.. I can’t be referred to a dietician. According to my GP, NHS cuts do not allow him to refer me. As a result I need to pay between £50 to £85 for a private one. I scrutinised all the online research available and created a diet plan for myself. The bummer is that healthy food costs much more than “normal” ranges. I literally can’t afford to have a sensitive stomach. Have you seen the prices of gluten free products?? Do take a look- it’ll blow your mind! Almost entertaining.

In 10 years I have never regretted moving to London, thinking that if I study here, if I work hard, if I put all the efforts possible- I will make a good living. I will enjoy my life. Bitter reality proved me wrong. I did all that and much, much more. This Christmas it will be 11 years since I've arrived here and I’m researching where I could take my youth, intellect and talents to be recognised and put to good use.

Sincerely,
G


Wednesday 17 September 2014

Breaking News: Unemployment falls by 146,000. Who are the lucky ones to be included in the statistics???





I have a degree in Business Law and Marketing, 10 years of vast and diverse customer service experience. I have been volunteering with charities since 2011, have co-founded a charity in 2014 and we subsequently built a kindergarten in 3 months, but I still cannot find a job in the charity sector??? How could one explain this phenomena, when a young, vibrant, determined, interesting and educated person cannot find a job for a long time?? I see it as society's problem, not one man's problem. 

I have interests, and hobbies, I work long hours, I was running between two jobs for many months so that I would have income from something that I'm excellent at - customer service and to gain experience for the future career that I desire - Communications and Marketing. On two occasions I worked 60, sometimes 70 hours a week and still struggled to pay the bills and I placed myself in an extremely fragile financial situation. 
Now tell me, is this fair? 

My own charity aside, I'm wasting my brain and youthful energy. I am stressed all the time and it's not like I have money to visit my family or take a holiday to refresh and rejuvenate to continue the endless search for the job that I know I’d excel at. I'm registered with countless recruitment agencies and many of them haven't managed to put me forward for an interview. They say I have an amazing CV and that I can cherry pick what I would like to do as I have such varied experience and yet they are not the least bit interested why my profile is still active on their database. 


Sometimes I think there are many people in the same situation as I am but often it feels like I'm standing on the battle field all by myself. I'll be turning 30 early next year and I don't have a stable career or income and I'm far, far away from buying a house or starting a family  as I simply cannot afford it! However I’ve worked weekdays and weekends, early mornings and late nights. If that is not determination, devotion and hard work, then I truly don't know what is.  


Now I understated that with these publicly expressed thoughts and "attitudes" I may lose the slightest chance of getting a job, but join me, good people, who else feels the same way?? 


With kindest wishes,

Giedre